You think you’ve already moved on from your past love? Think again. Your mind may tell you that you’ve already forgotten him but your actions shows that you’re still into him. Always remember, Action Speaks Louder than Words, honey.
#1. You still check his Social Media Accounts.
Admit it. You might have stopped for a while but when a recent update from him appears about what he’s been up to lately, your feelings go out of control again.
#2. You thought you know everything about him. But no, you actually don’t.
He might be the “ideal man” for you because of his charms and handsome look but deep inside there are still things you don’t know. His dark secrets that only his closest friends know. And you’re surprised because he didn’t tell you about those things when you two were still dating. You feel unfair about it.
#3. You give him the rolling eyes look when bumping into him.
Every girl does this. You give him that look to pretend that you “don’t care” anymore or that you’ve already moved on. But honestly, you haven’t because you’re still affected by doing that.
#4. You still keep the things he gave you.
Yes it’s difficult to throw those away. But keeping those small or big memories only shows that you haven’t really moved on. Honey, you better let go of those things now. It’s time to move on.
#5. You see him with a new girl and you’re like @#$%^!?&
Your temper suddenly goes up because you saw him hanging out with this new girl prettier than you and he’s all smiles while talking to her.
#6. You try to sleep but you can’t because you keep thinking about him.
Of course, you can’t just forget everything you and him did in a flash. You still tend to think about him and reminisce the things you guys did while you’re still dating. But it’s been a while now, you should stop and get yourself some sleep.
#7. You get all emotional because a song comes up that reminds you of him.
A song came up on the radio or on your playlist that reminds you of him or a memory of you guys together. You get all bitter and couldn’t enjoy the song anymore.
#8. You still have his messages on your inbox.
This is one of the worst things you could do if you’re trying to move on. You can’t say you’re done with him or you’ve forgotten him already if you still read his long ass message that he sends you every night before you sleep. Are you even sure you’ve moved on?
#9. You refuse to date someone new.
One reason why you refuse: You still think that he’s the best guy you’ve ever had because of all the memories and experiences you guys did while dating. People around you have been telling you to date or find someone new but you keep refusing. What is wrong with you??
#10. You act like you’re doing perfectly fine but deep inside you’re not.
You’re out with your friends on a Friday night, partying like crazy. You keep dancing crazily and shouting randomly pretending you’re having fun. But later on, you’ll break down to tears because you remembered him again and then go back to being perfectly fine.
Those are the ten signs I’ve thought about *not from my experience*. I hope that you get to read this, to those who needed this. If you can relate to this, then I hope you get a grip of yourself and start moving on. I know you deserve someone better. You deserve to be happy.